Everything is Love or a Call For Love. When we appreciate this Truth and integrate it into our moment to moment consciousness, then when people say hurtful and unloving things to us, we don't see the attack. We see someone who is in pain, who is calling out for love and attention in a very unloving way. We give the attack no power. We don't see an attacking person at all. We see someone who is loving but doesn't know how to show it. We see someone who is our spiritual brother or sister. And we respond with love. And we free our minds from fear. And we transform the relationship. It works if you work it.